any idea wat title should i gv to the short word below?

just nw saw tiok clement kho post "好马不吃回头草！！" in his fb status..

so i bored bored, and the mood cum, feel like wrote sum mandarin... so wrote as below;

好马不吃回头草，

好草不怕回头吃；

若然劣马随后到，

岂非辜负好草心？？

若然前方皆劣草，

好马委屈且伤身。。。

好马莫要太坚持，

不妨回头瞧一瞧，

好草或许仍坚立，

期待好马来相依。。。

where do human being cum frm??

suddenly i wonder about this:

do u agree the human being is:

a) frm the evolution of animal??? or
b) frm the reproduction of adam & hawa who created by god??


PLZ be open minded when u view the following, i just state out my doubt, no intention in criticize any religion thinking... thk u...

let say if u believe (a), then the question are:

i) wat animal that evo and turn into human??

ii) since ape had more common point wit human and sum say human did evo frm ape, bt, since ape can evo to human, y there are still ape around leh????


let say if u believe (b), then the question is:

i) y on such a big earth, they 2 can meet??

ii) if their meet up is fate set by god to reproduce, then is they white ppl o black ppl??? y can produce all kind of ppl as we had on earth nw??? (usualy in story they are white ppl lol)

iii) if god made them to reproduce and gt to the population nw, which mean adam n hawa is the 1st geneation of human being, then cum to the 2nd, 3rd.... BUT, if so is true, isnt tat mean the 2nd generation who is "damn close relative, brot n sis" made among them self to produce the 3rd??? n the 3rd do the same to gt the 4th??? and so on..... is tat mean god promoting "sex in family member"???

"如果我们的爱情真的要有期限，我会希望是万年。。" 浪漫吗？？

when i bek frm Tunku Putra Sch this afternun, inside car heard myfm playing a song start like below:

“（男女对话）：
女问男：你会爱我多久？？？
男答：我们都在一起酱多年了，你还用酱问吗？？
...女说：难道你们男生不懂女生会这么问是因为女生在这段感情里缺乏安全感吗？
一会后，男生说：如果我们的爱情真的要有期限，我会希望是一万年。。。。。
女生说：那你去跟周星驰谈恋爱吧。。。。”

对，就是这句周星驰的经典名言，让我想在这写些华文。。。朋友们，你会否觉得那句名言相当浪漫，深切呢？？

男生朋友们，换作是你，你又会给与什么样的答复呢？？？

若有一天，我爱的她酱问我，我的答复将会是。。。

“我了解让一个你不爱的人来爱着你，会对你带来困扰，而我爱你，想你开心，所以，我对你的爱，将会一直延续到。。。到你不再爱我为止。。。”

(PS: i say if oly oh..... hahahahha, cos so far only me n myself bah... ahhahahaah)

my 12 tym..

11july, had being to donating my dirty blood again, had reach the vanue, 2.5mile maybank at 1030am and gt my number, 106. waited around 2hour n 10minute to reach my turn to give blood, however, when look at those MO, MA, and organiser who work in n out till dnt even boder about their lunch n rest, i felt my tym of waiting seem uncamparable to their hard work... as we move to the same aim, try to help those who need as far as we could ^^

blood donation campaign on 11july 2010

as i had receive a sms frm the FCY (晋汉省华青团) about the blood donation drive which organice by them, i will b going fr it, and i hope u will too, if u stay in kuching, and u r in healthy condition. below are the detail about the campaign which i copy frm Su Chua Phin 徐蔡斌 blog.

NOTIS KEMPEN DERMA DARAH

FCY akan menganjur Kempen Menderma Darah di haribulan, masa dan tempat yang disebut berikut. Datanglah beramai-ramai.

捐血活动通告

晋汉省华青团将于下列日期，时间和地点举 办捐血活动，请大家踊跃参与。

BLOOD DONATION CAMPAIGN NOTICE

FCY will be organising a Blood Donation Campaign on the following date, time and venue. Please come to support.

Haribulan/Date /日期 :
11th July, 2010 (Sunday)

Masa/Time /时间 :
9.30 a.m. - 2.30 p.m.

Tempat/Venue /地点 :
Maybank, Jalan Laksamana Cheng Ho, Kuching

Kerjasama/co- organiser/承办属团 :
砂拉越古晉颍川陈氏公会青年团
Ying Chuan Chin Clan Association, Kuching Division, Sarawak, Youth Section

dear fren, it would be grad to have to to join in the event, if u wish to, plz make sure tat u are:

a) 1st and most important, have the will to donate, n nt being force to...
b) >45kg,
c) slp >5hours b4 donating blood, (believe me, this is important as i experience it b4, normally i took 3-4minute to give out a pint of blood, bt lastym when i go wit no slp bt just short nap, blood flow affected and i took bout 25minute to gt the 1 pin done....)
d) being healthy and DID NOT took any medication within 3day b4 donating.
e) for gal, if pregnant, or 1week b4 n after ur period, do not donate as u might be weak.
f) no medical history like hepetitis and so on.
g) no HIV (shouldnt hav la ho?? ahhaaaha)

happy day, SAFE BLOOD, SAVE LIFE

should we blame Paul (the octopus)???

from germany matches so far in worldcup 2010, 1 thing clear to be seen is tat ev1 seem to be blame Paul, the octopus for be able to predict so accurately, after the lose of germany to Spain on 8july, more n more ppl say tat "i wana kill tat stupiak octopus"..

acctually behind the fallen of germany, is it realy the fault of Paul??? in case sum might nt knw, 2years ago in Euro 2008 final when Germany meet Spain,Paul which is few month old on tat time predicted germany to win the match, however the result show Spain rule wit 1-0, and prove Paul wrong...so, is it realy matter wat Paul said??? or we should concentrate more in the player performance?

however, in looking into player performance, doesnt mean tat to blame the player, even for the team who perform the worst in worldcup, remember, they are still the best of their country, they are still the top 32 team in the world, is any1 of us dare to claim that we can play better then thm??? if yes, y dnt u go ahead to play ur best n replace them??? if nt, y dnt stop disparage them and pay them sum respect eventho they lose the game, so they might have the will to train hard fr better preformance in da future??? fren, do u agree wit me?? ahhaha

do boy n gal diff?? (nt biologically or physically)

hahha, last tym my fren, shindow liew did send the same thing to me by sms, bt i dnt realy agree wit the statement said in it... so i reply her as folo:


（1）通常男生会希望女生自己找他聊天：难道女生不也是希望对方会主动吗？？

（2）如果女生有事不和男生说，男生会小气：难道女生不会吗？我想女生不但会小气，还会在私底下乱想，猜测男生是否对她真心，为何要隐瞒她。。

（3〕男生最希望女生会在他难过时关心他：难道女生不也是一样吗？？

（4）当男生问“你还在忙？？”其实他不希望你去忙，也希望你陪他：难道当女生这样问时，她心里会希望你去忙吗？？？我想她更希望你有些时间陪陪她。。。

（5）当男生叫你“傻瓜”或“笨蛋”时，其实他心里很在乎那女生：难道当女生叫“傻瓜”或“笨蛋”时，她真的当你是白痴吗？？？我想她应该也意味着你在她心中的地位，与甜蜜吧？？

（6）男生很敏感，当你回答他单字答复时，他会认为你已厌倦他了：女生就不是吗？当你答她单字时，她应该在想你还爱她吗？为何不愿花多些时间跟她聊，为何一味的在敷衍她。。。

（7）男生很希望女生常对他说“我爱你”，但自己却很少说出口：难道女生不希望听到男生对她说“我爱你”吗？？？

（8）当男生提出分手时，其实他心里很不想分手：难道当女生提出分手时，不是因为有原因，而是因为她心里很期望分手吗？？？

（9）当发生事情时，男生看起来没哭，但事实上他们有哭：难道女生不也是故作坚强，忍无可忍时方才崩溃，哭泣，释放吗？？

（10）初恋后的男生很少找第二次恋爱，不为什么。。。：难道女生又有分别吗？经历深切，甜蜜，刻骨爱恋后的女生，难道能够说放就放，迅速敞开心胸，去寻找新的恋情吗？？

总得来说，真的不同吗？？？？

15th NVECC (4-6june 2010) had cum to an end yesterday..

for committees, if i did any rough to u durig camp o training camp, soly many many ya ^^

for participants, i wonder if u guy hate me for asking u all wake so early, cos i myself realy sienz if ppl woke me up while i syok syok kun lol... hahaha... and paisei tat i owes cut short u guy de resting tym around 15-20minute compare to wat the schedule provide u.... and soly if i did raise my voice to u all...

for bday de pax, u guy are gd, u did nting wrong, bt, bside hapy celebrating ur bday, 1 thing u must nt 4gt, SAY THANK U TO UR MOM, u can never imagine how much pain and sacrifices had she undergo in order to get u the "passport" to this wonderful world...

tru out the camp, i took 0 pic, so if any1 do wish to have a view, u may see in the link: http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=4186645&id=699708604#!/photo_search.php?oid=90594501985&view=all

my 2nd attempt in plaining fo kk trip....

since my 1st planing of kk hike trip being as a "past" event, i attempt my 1nd plan after the edu camp on june 2009.

actualy this "plan" is start wit just a simple sms wit shirley bong and mainly concern in hike up kk mountain, however due to sum inconvenient, shirley dint join me in this plan. and it end up of me and 17 fren frm unimas.

by the help frm whyee and edison, we gather a numbers of frens. and i start look into detail of event to do during the trip, how ever nt much result can i gather frm internet and dint gt much feedbek fren fren on wat they interested in doing after the hike.

anyway, plan kept proceed by booking the hike permit and accomodation on dec 2009, which is 6month b4 our trip.

time soon past, and nw, when i wrote this blog, we had oledy attempted the hike and gt bek to out lodge in kk town.

i m nt good in describing the detail procees, however i do wish to take chance here to say sum little word....

firstly, i would like to appologise to all my fren as i dint have the "plan" properly "planed", and mis out sum important detail and consideration on each and every 1 abilities b4 gving u guy the "reference", such as the hardness of the trail, the tym consumtion for each of u... jin paisei.... as i assume my own tym for ur reference.....

secondly, i would like to thank all fren who willing to take their tym to participate in the hike, witout u all, this "plan" can oly be a "PLAN" and never turn into reality....

3rdly, greatly congrate to those who manage to step their feet on the highest peak of ASEAN, for those who r nt, which i m oso i of them, plase do nt give up, we knw tat u had try.... and may god blees, we can do it next time when there is chance.

4thly, and the most important appreciation i would like to sent to GOD, odo i dint manage to step up to summit, bt i realy do need to thank U for perpare the best for us, the best weather especialy and thank U tat all of my fren had the experience and safe tru out the journey....

najib bullshiting.....

badan pencegah rasuah dreaming is it??? y najib say til like this stil no action is being taken on him????

like this still can say an election is a fair play???? i dnt wan to, bt i cnt control to say it: fck off u najib...... nwadays supporting BN seem = to supporting RASUAH dy....

he said: u mau 5juta kan?? i mau robert lau win sunday nite.... do we hav the deal????

he said again: lu tak payak keluar duit, wa akan keluar duit, 5juta, very expensive tu....

WTF, the 1st sentance dnt it clear to be rasuah???... See More
the 2nd 1 lagi bullshit, hw dare u nt oly assume bt say it LOAD & CLEAR tat people's money is UR money???? damn u....

Do i look like 1????

so curious... do i look like 1...... just nw a guy (let call him as X) sent a fren request, i chk on the mutual fren, gt 11fren, among are chong cvh, tomato, steve sim, jimmy liew... so i approved, then X sent me fb msg... content like:

X: hi hi
how r u?
can we be frens?
hope u reply me soon ya..
er,
mind if i ask for ur contact no.?
so tat can chat by sms to kno each other well...
cos i seldom online ler... :)
i'll wait for ur reply ya... :)

kc: haha, sure i dnt mind to be fren, bt if u contact me tru hp, will seldon gt rep-lay de, cos my hp seldom reload 1, hahahaha,

X: y seldom reload o?
how old r u?
work o still study now?
r u plu too? :)

kc: haha, bo lui + lazy lol... hahahaha, stil study.. wat plu mean?

X: plu means gay...
r u?

kc: no, y?

then X nvr reply liaw....
fr those in the mutual fren list, do X sent the same thing to u guy???

so curious, do i realy look like a "GAY"?????
odo i post this, bt i had no prejudice to gay, just wana clearify tat odo i gt no gf, bt i m nt gay n will never be...

seriously, do i look like 1??? wahahahha

朋友们，你们认为呢？

最近常看到类似这样的页面： “如果有一千个人❤我就向 她告白！！”。。。 “如果有一万个人❤我就向 她求婚！！” 等等， 而也有许多朋友给了他们个 “like”。。。虽然看似浪漫，但我个人却认为会开启如此页面的人根本不值得人们给予支持，更不值得他们的对象给他们机会。。。 试想想，当心仪你的人对你说：“我在面子书上得到了一万个like, 所以我鼓起勇气向你告白，让你知晓我多爱你。。。。” 这时，他的所为难道不是意味着： “我对你的爱，会因为他人的言语和行为而有所改变？？不是因发自真心的爱，才有的勇气。。。” 那么，若有天他得到了十万个 unlike, 那你还会是他心中的首位吗？？？ 朋友们，你们认为呢？

do u knw wat "BF" & "GF" mean?????

i copy this frm rain ee's fb note.

男孩和女孩。。从小一起长大。。青梅竹马。。
有一次。。
男孩对女孩说"我是你的BF"。。
女孩问"什么是BF"。。
男孩说"是Best Friend的意思"。。
又有一次。。
男孩对女孩说"我是你的BF"。。
女孩问"什么是BF"。。
男孩说"Boy Friend的意思"。。
再后来。。他们结婚生子。。一起生活了一辈子。。
幸福美满一直到他们到了风烛残年。。
男孩对女孩说"我是你的BF"。。
女孩问"什么是BF"。。
男孩微笑回答"Be Forever"。。

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女孩和男孩。。从小一起长大。。青梅竹马。。
有一次。。
女孩对男孩说"我是你的GF"。。
男孩问"什么是GF"。。
女孩说"是Good Friend的意思"。。
又一次。。
女孩对男孩说"我是你的GF"。。
男孩问"什么是GF"。。
女孩说"Girl Friend的意思"。。
再后来。。他们结婚生子。。一起生活了一辈子。。
幸福美满一直到他们到了风烛残年。。
女孩对男孩说"我是你的GF"。。
男孩问"什么是GF"。。
女孩微笑回答"Give Forever"。。

刚刚看了Jia Wan Loke 的 FB status, 突然也想写写中文。。。

"星星随着眼泪一点一点的消失。 失去星星的星空，望眼一看，只剩月亮，寂寞似的。"

换个角度去想，星星的消失，对月亮而 言，会不会是种解脱

呢？毕竟，星星的作用只在于 锦上添花，点缀夜空罢了，而真正能让月亮发光发热的，是太 阳。。。
换言之，若星星没有离去，静静的伴随着月亮，月亮又可成会珍惜星星的付出？？ 这么一来，两者何不在适当是分开，以免双方身处委屈之中。。。


“当小鱼走出鲨鱼的世界时，鲨鱼会挽留小鱼吗？”

自古以 来，小鱼皆将鲨鱼视为天敌，鲨鱼的接近，在小鱼眼中， 被视为残杀，凌虐。。。因此，小鱼一心想要离去，而忘 记了，若于无猎食者的环境中生长，虽可能活得逍遥，当繁殖过 盛时，小鱼将陷入自相残杀的困境。。。
所以，凡事不应妄断，在责问他人 “你可成挽留过我？？” 时， 不妨问问自己 “我是否已用尽真心来体会你对我的爱。。。”


“当叶子将要离大树而去时，为何大树不挽留叶子？ 其实叶子希望大树去挽留她。但是，她盼望已久都等不到一个 温暖的手将她紧紧的放在心房上，落地后，时间将她被遗忘 了。”

绿叶耗尽一生，为大树供食，当它老去时，却仍得不到大树的呵护，怜爱，旁人观之甚悲。。。
但试想想，或许绿叶的牺牲是心甘情愿的，绿 叶具有高尚情操，心宽，大爱， 心知自己日渐老去，将会成为大树的负担，因此选择落下，化作 春泥，滋养它心爱的大树，岂不甚喜？？

心情的好坏，并不能让光阴为之而停顿，生命依然在延续，何不让我们以宽大之心，乐观的面对迎面而来得种种。。。

愿平安，喜乐。。。
（纯 属个人意见，望切莫见怪。。 嘻嘻〕

14 feb, valentine day...

二月十四这一天，在西洋传统里，年青人将是华仑亭情人节的主角，他们在这天郑重其事的为情人选购礼物，鲜花，以表达爱意。

在美国，这一天不仅是情侣的节日，亲人朋友间也可以互送小礼物，以表达感情，促进友谊。。。

14, jan... diary day

日记情人节，情侣会相互赠送足够记录一整年恋爱情事的日记本，以此象征两人将携手走过未来的一年，并留下更多美好，甜蜜的回忆。。。